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2008/08/29

Staying & Studying Thai? - Part II: Have never said No!

It's true we never say no even when we mean it.

I remember years ago when I started learning English in the primary school the funny trouble in answering a certain kind of question. Something like "So, you're not coming?" or "Don't you like mango?"

In Thai, to confirm to the above question that you're not coming or that you're not fond of the fruit, you say "Chai" which literally means yes.

In English, you say No to confirm, right?

So, if you study Thai and want to hit things right, say Yes to mean yes and also Yes to mean no. Make sure you don't confuse yourself. That's all.

So, what's the implication of all this?

Well, we Thais are nice and kind. We don't break people's heart, esp. at night when the heart is rather "fragile.' We say yes to everything.

Or, if you'd rather phrase it as "convenient," you're probably spot on!

Will be back for more on this wonderfully weird language. Off to a night out 'cause Bangkok is impatiently waiting for me!

Hopefully there will be someone out there to whom I can say yes all the way.

Joe

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